"What's the payoff?" she asked me?
So I pondered that.
I pondered why I would want to make the change I had been thinking of.
And as I did, without meaning to, I turned towards the feelings I was looking for: the feeling of relief, the feeling of freedom and the feeling of fun.
As you can imagine, everything shifted.
Without me even having to leave the thing behind!
Want to make a change? Want to stop something? Fix something? Run away from something?
Ask yourself "What's the payoff?" Ponder that. Think about that. Make that clear in your head. Feel what that might be.
And see what happens.